She was a working actress, married to a TV star. He was a Spanish heart-throb, married to another actress. But when they met on the set of the 1995 movie, “Two Much,” this couple fell in love. Once the movie wrapped, they separated from their spouses and began dating. Within a few months, he proposed. They exchanged vows in 1996 at London’s Westminster Registry.
Sweet Disorder
by Robert Herrick
A sweet disorder in the dress
Kindles in clothes a wantonness:
Into a fine distraction –
An erring lace, which here and there
Enthralls the crimson stomacher –
A cuff neglectful, and thereby
Ribbands to flow confusedly –
A winning wave, deserving note,
In the tempestuous petticoat –
A careless shoe-string, in whose tie
I see a wild civility –
Do more bewitch me than when art
Is too precise in every part.
* Take a tour of the best libraries in your region. Be sure to visit the special collections — and sneak a kiss amidst the stacks.
* Learn a new language together. Just think of all the great conversations you can have in French, Italian, Spanish, Japanese, etc.
* Research your personal histories and create a family tree. Start with the two of you and branch out.
“Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it…It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk everything, you risk even more.” –Erica Jong